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Genocide Reaper
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Quote: Originally posted by shadow_sniper  | ffs. i cant be arsed anymore. post up a response that pretty much clearly explains what i am on about and its skipped
entirely in order to talk about something that has nothing to do with what i am on about, based on incorrect assumptions about things from an earlier
post that i have clarified in the later. goddamn. you arent having a discussion at this point, youre having a statement, waiting for noise to happen
then having the same statement again but longer. you are waving your book around so wildly you cant actually tell if what is in there matches what is
being said by the people you are saying are wrong or not. ive taken the time to read and understand your view points, the least you could fucking do
is read what i am saying to you in return.
so lets skip that and go for the incredibly fucking simple thing i am trying to get through... again: no one, at any time, can legitimately
harm someone else in a relationship. no kind of abuse is fine, not verbal, not physical, not if she or he is cheating, or anything else. no.
there is nothing that can be done relationship wise that gives you a right to intimidate or hurt someone. you. do. not. have. that. right. full.
mother. fucking. stop.
and dont make up my views for me either. you dont know what sort of relationship i am in or was in at th time of post. i would never fucking betray
someone, id never fucking cheat on someone. there are other types of relationship aside from married with kids. it might be hard for you to realize or
understand that. but just because someone doesnt follow your ways to the letter doesnt mean they are scum. fuck you.
and dont i remember something from before about you being ok with your wife going off and doing girls? i bet she asked you first. i bet you didnt see
that as betrayal.
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See I completely disagree, I think there is justifiable violence and anger. Initial reactions are hard to control when you've been shellshocked.
I think it could be considered diminished capacity. There is a defense to be made about getting angry and even violent in relationships. It all
depends on the circumstances, now you took the vibe from her 'temper' comment as 'he sounds abusive'
You seemed a bit defensive over it. I didn't, I saw it as her probably reading between the lines and seeing an answer to her question.
As for me and my wife's little discussion, how many other men would say "Yeah, I'd rather my wife have sex with other women than men, or in fact I'd
probably enjoy it."?
Is it any secret most men aren't bothered by girl on girl? Now on the other hand most men aren't cool with their girlfriend or wife doing anything
with another male whether they be gay or straight.
I don't think she would have even asked for our thoughts if she was considering girl on girl.
What bothered me was the fact you instantly wanted to demonize the boyfriend without ever meeting him just because of the suggestion he might be so
upset he wouldn't want his girlfriend around someone that might entertain the idea of sexual acts with her.
If you want a healthy relationship, you don't poke the bear. You don't go about humoring the ideas that you know could result in negative actions.
Instead of you saying something along those lines it was "Well, you do whatever and if the boyfriend doesn't like it fuck him because he sounds angry
and abusive and controlling and evil like all evil men."
If he didn't get upset about the notion I'd be concerned. Rather than paint him as the bad guy, I decided to attempt a defense for a possible
scenario for someone that isn't even here to defend themselves.
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emokormy
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doesn't craigslist exist where you live? tell him to release his buttsex desires through complete strangers he met on the internet.
cya, assholes.
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